Ted Talk Responses1. Dan Gilbert: "Why are we happy?"Major life events or tragedies have less of an impact on our lives then we first image. For example whether or not we pass a test or assignment over time does not effect us. "We synthesize happiness, but we think happiness is a thing to be found" his humorous secrets to happiness that apply to people who could have been extraordinarily successful in other people's standards but are still happy, are...
1. accrue wealth, power, and prestige. Then loose it
2. spend as much of your life in prison as you possibly can.
3. Make someone else really, really rich
4. Never ever join the Beatles
"When preferences drive us too hard and too fast, because we have overrated the difference between these two futures. When our ambition is bounded it leads us to work joyfully, when our ambition is unbounded we are at risk- to lie to cheat, to steal, to hurt others, to sacrifice things of real value. Our longings and our worries are over blown, because we have the ability to manufacture the exact thing when we choose experience."
I found this taught highly enlightening. It also comes at a point when I am questioning my future, so it eased my mind a bit to realize that I have the ability to manufacture my own happiness. And that I get most stressed and unhappy when I am overwhelmed by choice and ideas of taking the wrong life path.
2. Tony Robbins: "Why we do what we do"Tony Robbin speaks in a very commanding and motivating way. He spoke about achievement, what makes us really feel accomplished and brings us to happiness. He said achievement is a science, but fulfillment is an art. The defining factor of our success ins never resources its resourcefulness, and that it all depends on emotion. The reason we desire to grow and achieve is to meet our other desire to give.
3. John Wooden: "On Success" John Wooden spoke about coaching and teaching at UCLA. He often referred back to the lessons he had learned from his father, when growing up on the family farm. He was a very endearing old man that spoke in a way that made me want to work hard to truly do my very best. Also to live in a good way and be kind to others.








